Do they usually like to be the center of attention?
For an ENF_, telling jokes or otherwise "performing" in some way is likely to include a significant "personalized" component where a positive reaction to the jokes/performance is felt to be a positive reaction to the ENF_ person. (Think about Sally Field telling the Oscars audience, "You like me. You really like me.") And I think it's fair to say that there's a certain neediness in a typical ENF_ in the sense that their sense of self-worth is significantly tied up in having other people like/approve them.
For an ENT_ it's much more impersonal. When the audience laughs, it's laughing at the jokes, not the comedian (from the perspective of the ENT_ comedian). That's not to say the ENT_ performer won't take a craftsman's pride in having created the approved performance, but it's not a personal thing, really. He likes the fact that the audience appreciates the same jokes he also finds funny, but doesn't experience it as the audience liking him as a person. He realizes that, if he went out for drinks with random members of the audience that liked the jokes a lot, chances are good that many of them wouldn't necessarily like him as a person just because they'd liked his jokes.
Usually I don't. There are times when I like attention and times when I really, really don't want it and would stfu and walk away if I got too much. For the most part I'm happy in the background so long as I'm not dismissed or ignored by those I care about.
I was talking about attention the other day on a different forum, specifically about how ENTPs can appear to be attention whores to others and look like they're seeking attention as a kind of validation but that the motivation is often just to get others to laugh and lighten up while amusing ourselves. I found this as an explanation interesting;
ENTPs generally have a lack of concern for embarrassing ourselves so when our Ne get's all extroverty we are capable of some pretty random-crazy behaviour that can be seen as wanting to be the centre of attention.
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Here's a picture of me.
I have a seedy neck beard and my shirt says "When in doubt whip it out". (I've seen the error of my ways and I now try and keep the facial [*cough* neck] hair to a minimum and try to wear "smart casual" clothing.)
I used to wear crocs because my friends would go crazy about them; thinking up elaborate plans amongst eachother on how they would destroy them, what they would do to me while wearing crocs. Generally they liked to talk about how much they hated them. I like to think I help people connect with eachother through a common dislike for something I do
I don't care how people percieve my physical appearance, I will be appropriate if the situation calls for it, but if I feel comfortable in my environment I will wear whatever is most comfortable. (I wore the shirt because it was a new hand me down from my brother btw)
From: http://www.socionics.com/prof/entp.htm"ENTps usually have a distant, far away look in their eyes and it often seems as though they are paying little attention to what is going on."
I'm just saying in general what do they look like? Or ENTPS, describe what you look like. Maybe there is a physical feature that most ENTPS have in common. I'm just really curious to know. Thanks for all answers.
I'm just saying in general what do they look like? Or ENTPS, describe what you look like. Maybe there is a physical feature that most ENTPS have in common. I'm just really curious to know. Thanks for all answers.