- MBTI
- INFJ
- Enneagram
- 9w1
Children don't like me, lol. I like kids I know, but other peoples kids... Dunno, they leave me alone and I leave them alone! The problem is, I can't show my caring for kids when others are around me, so people think I hate them but I really want to teach them things and talk to them and play about with them. In other words, I do like kids, but I can't really express it and feel awkward and 'oh shit, did I do that wrong?' around them.
Yeah, I feel that way a lot.
1. Do you want a family? If not, do you think you will change your mind in the future?
A couple of my college buddies have kids, and I can tell that they are experiencing something wonderful. Everyone tells me I should have kids. Even a stranger told me that once, and he wasn't being sarcastic at all. I used to want like 8 kids. Now I'm negotiating with my husband. He wants three. I said how about 1.5? Now to the question. I do want a family, but I'm also kind of selfish with my husband. I want to do things with him. I hope I'll feel ready soon.
2. Do you like children? Do you want children of your own?
Like Yield, I don't think kids like me. I really would like to adopt, but I'm not sure if my dad would be super cool with that. I don't want to deprive my children of a grandparent when my grandparents meant so much to me growing up.
3. Do you think you would be able to balance your need for isolation vs the demands of a family?
Sure because if my kids turn out anything like me or their father they'll want alone time too. It's another reason I'd like to skip the baby stage and adopt.