Skare - don't forget to come back to this as I'd
love to hear what you meant. My interest is mega piqued
Lol.
Congrats on the football win btw!
Much wine was had yesterday!
Anyway...I suppose it depends on several factors or right conditions.
Moral flexibility could certainly play a role, but often when we think of moral flexibility we think of a lack of morality or a lesser amount of.
Usually such people are viewed in a negative way...though militaries around the world certainly take advantage of flexible morality when training someone who would carry out questionable things in the average person.
But one could also have flexible morality and it not be a negative, at least imho.
Such as, the examination of the very idea of morals and morality itself, can lead one to a deeper understanding and empathy for others who may not share your own ideas of morality.
It is in short, keeping an open mind to the idea that we may have it all wrong.
Morals have certainly changed in the course of humankind...the ones that generally have lasted the test of time are the morals that are the most beneficial to society at large...some written down as religious law, some as laws of man, some have been maintained on a more collective consciousness type level.
We have thoughts like the simple idea of stealing bread to feed yourself or your child...yes, it is breaking the law, but at the point of starvation does the ego step in with rules of morality...probably, but at this point the person has highly flexible morality and doesn’t view it as “wrong”.
(Or they do, but survival supersedes their morals)
And I personally wouldn’t fault them for stealing the bread - which is my own flexible morality and empathy in play as some would definitely punish such a person anyhow.
I find it more proper to steal the bread, than for them to starve...yes, there is of course also the bread shop owner to consider, I would hope that people would be a bit more altruistic and help feed such a person, but this is the real world.
Yes, there are some who would rather die than do such a thing...that’s fine, I’m not judging...though I am being judged.
I would fully expect such an act to have to be paid back in some manner, either through work, or monetarily returning what was taken when you can repay.
And I certainly don’t condone any sort of violence or destruction to play a role.
It doesn’t mean that the morals of the person have changed either - only that their Maslow's hierarchy was about to crumble if they didn’t take action.
So in this way...the moral of not stealing has gotten in the way of what is right...which is to feed a starving child or save their own life, as our own life should be considered no less important than another’s (or a loaf of bread) ((even though we naturally place ourselves into our perceived position of importance, usually unless you are an arrogant ass it is on level with or below those we love...by below I mean a parent may place the lives of their children over their own))...imho.
But more so...morals are so incredibly varied from person to person...some feeling more strongly about others than some...some having differing opinions on the moral being a moral itself at all (usually religiously based).
The point was...not to have such strict morals when they need to be bent for the intuitively “right” reason - what you feel in your heart...and yes, that can be wildly off target to someone else or even society at large - when they need to be bent, you don’t flounder too long deciding your course of action.
I’m not saying go out and rob a bank to give to the homeless shelter (though they are insured hahaha).
But in the right circumstances most morals are questionable - I think people should have the conversation about their own moral beliefs and flexibility (or lack of) with themselves before they are confronted with such a quandary.
It would probably be helpful anyway.
Take the recent separation from parents and caging of children in the US - with no plan to reunite them, all done as a deterrent.
Jeff Sessions certainly feels morally correct in what he has done...I have no doubt he sleeps soundly at night.
But the majority of society, both here, and around the world condemned their actions and forced them to stop and resolve what they had been doing.
Which still isn’t resolved...
Someone who’s moral of following the laws of the land might look at what they did and feel it was justified (even though it’s a misdemeanor and most are seeking asylum - which they continuously keep changing the reasons for seeking asylum and moving the finish line to screw as many over as they can)....but such a person feels that following our leaders and the laws is more important than looking at people as individuals and trying to help them as one good human to another who is in pain and seeking help for them and their children - they are willing to risk breaking our laws (societal morals) to save their children.
We can be armchair judges, but we can never really know what is in their hearts, what they have faced in their lives, what kind of violence or situation they are leaving...we haven’t walked in their shoes (or lack of), and I find it personally distasteful when people want to turn them away and deport them en mass for the crime of acting out of fear and a sense of survival for themselves and children.
Enter legally people say...go through the process...
That is laughable, and imho only an excuse to dismiss them entirely as it is almost impossible for some to come here...not because they are bad people, but because our immigration services is so backlogged and messed up.
Anyhow...sorry for the rant...but it’s a good example to part of the question.