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I start to think that this world was made for assholes.
NICE!
I start to think that this world was made for assholes.
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I've always been someone who teases others, is overly sarcastic, and says insensitive things more often than I would like.
That being said, I've been told I'm very nice by enough people that I've finally accepted it.
At the end of the day though, I don't think you should overthink on the concept of being nice. You do it because at the end of the day, it is the decent thing to do, and god knows we need more of it in this planet.
I agree, just because. It's what comes natural and feels right. Also, I like when people are happy, it makes me happy too.Because.
Just a small gesture such as smiling and telling someone to have a nice day can have a great impact.
However, it's wonderful how a simple act of kindness and appreciation can change someone's day for the better. Just a small gesture such as smiling and telling someone to have a nice day can have a great impact.
Worse how?
Is this actually worse or does your ego just detest reality?
Being cool helps me navigate things. I'm nice when it seems like it'll be reciprocated relatively evenly.
The overuse of niceness is a folly of many, myself included sometimes, but I'd rather fall more in that camp than the other.
Evil tactics win a lot of battles, but largely if you look around, it's the good stuff that presides over the whole of things.
We are biologically wired to help our fellow humans, but our minds misfire a lot of things. We aren't perfect.
I've unfortunately encountered those kind of people, and I avoid them like the plague. It's funny though, they definitely do notice when I know something is up, may it be that "INFJ bullshit radar" and they immediately start showing their true colors or ignore me too. *shrugs*
As I have been in the receiving end of hate and bulling in a period of time in my younger years, I know what it's like to feel in a place of such darkness and hopelessness, and I relate to those who have gone through those situations. Nobody wants to be treated unjustly and feel alienated. During those moments of hurdles, I still treated others nicely (of course defended myself if need be) but mainly because I felt it was mentally ingrained due to how I was also raised and because I wanted to be nice. Be the better person so to speak. Not sure if it's an ego thing in part I will admit...nonetheless, "kill them with kindness" as you say!
I do agree that unfortunately the world is sort of made for assholes...
I don't think you should overthink
You do it because at the end of the day, it is the decent thing to do, and god knows we need more of it in this planet.