Why it sucks to be an INFJ

Wyote said:
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OR it's me after telling myself to stop going Psycho on people when they are mean to my loved ones... but still contributing to this worm hole of a thread and I got lost and never found...
 
Rit4lin said:
Sadly only 24hr tesco near me is like a 25minute drive and I ain't that desperate... I think. Maybe. Who knows. Perhaps. I can taste the digestives though so I guess insanity it is

Lovely choice with a steak though
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I was cooking and reading and responding and laughing my ass off... you can have some of my teriyaki beef and zucchini noodles man. <3 Surely this shit will help you with your erm... problem :laughing: Its so strong haha. Plenty of Soy sauce and Worcestershire too... ;)
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False premise! It doesn't suck to be an INFJ. :relieved:

Depth, insight, influence, social skill. What's to lament?
 
Oh and I regrettably love validation. :(

Edit: It's okay to need validation, its just not something I want to need... for myself. I want to be strong in of myself. A warrior who needs nobody.
 
April said:
Oh and I regrettably love validation. :(

Edit: It's okay to need validation, its just not something I want to need... for myself. I want to be strong in of myself. A warrior who needs nobody.
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@Ren and @Milktoast Bandit I love how you guys just liked this even though it had nothing to do with this thread, it was meant to be in Ren's other thread about mistyping LMAO :sweatsmile::sweatsmile::sweatsmile:
 
Ren said:
False premise! It doesn't suck to be an INFJ. :relieved:

Depth, insight, influence, social skill. What's to lament?
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Well ...... I suppose it can suck if we let it. Hearing all the dickheads broadcasting does get to be a bit tedious ... but I'd much rather know there's a beastie with creepy legs and wings and stings lurking in my room than not lol. So yes, you are dead right Ren - it sucks no more than being any other type, and less than most if we take advantage of the sheer magic of it.

April said:
Oh and I regrettably love validation. :(

Edit: It's okay to need validation, its just not something I want to need... for myself. I want to be strong in of myself. A warrior who needs nobody.
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Well I'm going to stick my neck out here April and say that validation is absolutely essential. It's a mirror in which we see ourselves in the eyes of others and it's vital for our self knowledge. We are crap judges of ourselves, consistently over- or under-valuing ourselves. There is nothing whatsoever wrong in seeking in the faces of others to know whether we are OK or not - it's essential, and without it we float off into fantasy and nonsense. Of course it can become a drug, an addiction to seek strokes from other people, but most good things in life can be perverted in that way. It doesn't stop them being good when they are used in a healthy way. And of course - the judgement of others is going to be imperfect, but that's what makes life so fascinating and lovely, and such a great adventure.
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April said:
I was cooking and reading and responding and laughing my ass off... you can have some of my teriyaki beef and zucchini noodles man. <3 Surely this shit will help you with your erm... problem :laughing: Its so strong haha. Plenty of Soy sauce and Worcestershire too... ;)
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Oh I'd kill for some of that right now, I lloovvee love love teriyaki (anything really) and noodles:hearteyes:. Could you send some over in the post please I'm sure it'd be completely fine
 
Aneirin said:
you missed it, kind of like a bad acid trip. . like,did that really happen??
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Strangest thing. The same scenario seems to play out every few months - there seem to be people around who just sign up to piss people around. They win the game in their own minds by being banned lol. Are you OK my friend? I guess you were looking on in amazement as much as anything.
 
April said:
Oh and I regrettably love validation. :(

Edit: It's okay to need validation, its just not something I want to need... for myself. I want to be strong in of myself. A warrior who needs nobody.
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A very noble want April. Take a tad of thought from an old lady who learned the hard way that we humans are not an island. It's okay to need validation while working for a place to belong ;)♡
 
John K said:
Strangest thing. The same scenario seems to play out every few months - there seem to be people around who just sign up to piss people around. They win the game in their own minds by being banned lol. Are you OK my friend? I guess you were looking on in amazement as much as anything.
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it just happened at a bad time, and was very triggering. there is are lot of really bad things swirling around me. I come here as a refuge at times, like yesterday. . and I walked into a shit storm. It was not a good afternoon. But I must say that the support I received was incredible. . thank you all
 
John K said:
Well ...... I suppose it can suck if we let it. Hearing all the dickheads broadcasting does get to be a bit tedious ... but I'd much rather know there's a beastie with creepy legs and wings and stings lurking in my room than not lol. So yes, you are dead right Ren - it sucks no more than being any other type, and less than most if we take advantage of the sheer magic of it.


Well I'm going to stick my neck out here April and say that validation is absolutely essential. It's a mirror in which we see ourselves in the eyes of others and it's vital for our self knowledge. We are crap judges of ourselves, consistently over- or under-valuing ourselves. There is nothing whatsoever wrong in seeking in the faces of others to know whether we are OK or not - it's essential, and without it we float off into fantasy and nonsense. Of course it can become a drug, an addiction to seek strokes from other people, but most good things in life can be perverted in that way. It doesn't stop them being good when they are used in a healthy way. And of course - the judgement of others is going to be imperfect, but that's what makes life so fascinating and lovely, and such a great adventure.
:<3orange:
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And as always, here you come, making sense of things in the John K fashion. <3 Thank you, kind sir, and ya know, I think I agree with you! But... I still am pouting cause I want to need it less.
 
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