That's actually not far from the truth, I'm ashamed to say. :-(
After I learned more about Fe and Fi, I wanted to understand INTJ's Fi---values (not feelings). Damn Carl Jung for calling them "feeling"- turns out they have nothing to do with that unless perhaps an emotion is evoked from a violation of a value.
But yeah, I'm tired of all that. I still don't really understand it, but I don't care anymore. I really want to quit obsessing over the MBTI and just be...I don't know...a human being or something.
Part of me wants to stay in touch with you, and another part of me remembers your fear of closeness. I may leave this forum, Sonya. But thanks for everything all the same.