My mother is an ENFP. A badly bruised, bitter, blackmailing ENFP. =) So my experience with ENFPs might not be good. yes.
And this might sound like a copout but I'm not speaking in the sense of 'you're not describing Fe so you must describe Fi so you must be a Fi user OMG ENFP!' in that post. It's just not right for me. I'm standing by that.
And I don't know, saru; for one thing, the particular post we're discussing about is said and discussed in the MBTI section. And if you are aware, the people mostly engaged there are discussing it in a highly........rational, cerebral, method of describing. (One that I'm unable to match) This is -me- talking but, if you ever so decide to enter that kind of discussion, you should at least attempt to play within their rules. OR, you can come, say what you needed to say, and leave without caring so much about the reaction.. Now the latter is Fi.
The way I see it, it's not Fe or Fi....at least the healthy ones. (IMO, Fi shadowing to Fe and Fe shadowing to Fi is similar) You're just being -too- defensive and prickly right now. I understand things hadn't been so well for you in this forum, and the temptation to make others see your perspective are extremely high, but lay down a bit. Because if it's understanding you're seeking, you're not helping your case here.
