Woow :0 you really seem quite keen on like~ finding out your type~ which is so strange to me because because well~ To me it doesn't seem that /important/ to know exactly what your type is~ I mean yeaa it's haaandy but hmmm.... But maaybe you can try a different approach to what you're doing now
?~ Well I don't know~ what I do is I try to compare myself to different people a lot~ which is very difficult sometimes but then again I can't do without, so that's handy. Like like~ We all have different values right? What aspect of those values resonates with those people? How does it differ from your own, how do you see their values? Why~ and you know that kind of stuff
~ I mean hmmm~ ooh I know~
Well I have this friend right? And he gets all really angry when I open his mail or when I move things on his desk and stuff~ soo.... one day he has this letter on his desk from the bank (with really boring trivial information in it) So I decided to open it~ He immediately got tootally angry saying "I told you soo many times, don't open other people's letters!" To which I replied "But who cares about that letter! There's NOTHING personal in there at all, I just like opening letters because it's fun to do, geeeeeeeeez" To which he replied "It's not important if it's personal or not you just don't open other people's letters" To which I replied "You can open all the letters I receive~ There's nothing interesting written in them anyways" To which he replied "You just don't open other people's things, it's theirs" to which I said "huuuuuu, whyyyy, I don't understaaaaaand" (yes in that tone) to which he said something like "Just because" then I probably just copied his "Just because" in order to mock his ,to me, faulty reasoning
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Then I kinda realized something... about myself~ it was so strange
I knew exactly how he would react to me opening his letter, I knew exactly what he would say and what kind of reasoning he would use. But I was still provoking him regardless of that knowledge...... I realized that that that... well him having such an affinity to "privacy".... was a completely ludicrous concept for me! I felt as if was just stupid social protocol. So I half consciously took the most mundane action possible in order to provoke him in attempt to make him realize how ridiculous his point of view was....
Of course it didn't reaaaally work out I think.... in the end he only got mad and thought I was being childish (But I secretly think he did get is because he's quite smart and can see through things probably) ~ But that point aside! I did learn something new about myself that day which I was totally unaware of~ I apparantly force people to see things "differently" by creating scenarios for them to be "enlightend" I know It's low ~
how was your day?k fine.
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I know, sweetums...but there's a communication issue, y'know? Maybe when you're trying to be funny he doesn't see it that way. Take away the pretense - maybe say you're sorry for offending him, even if you don't know how.
*shrugs* That is up to you. I just felt the need to point out that there is a better way to handle the issue. I hope you and Indy discuss and work out your issues.
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lol don't worry, it's okay
Noted. I'll keep you updated for when I can fit you into my schedule.Nah, It's Gary Numan. Synthesis and electronic music pioneer with androgynous alien persona.
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I don't think you're rude.