I think it's more like irritation, though, and that's an INFJ thing (for the most part): If we tell you what we think you are after we've analyzed it, and you still disagree with us, then we'll pretty much stay irritated. And we won't continue helping you because we "gave" you the answer earlier. It's no big deal; that's just how it goes, mostly.
But with everything you've said in your message, where do you think that places you, as far as MBTI is concerned?