Ask me anything, and I'll be sure to give you valuable help. You can trust me on this.

I don't have any bitterness towards her... Even though I am sad... I truly want her to be happy, and if it means to staying away for a while I am fine with that.... Gotta give myself a bit time.
mintoots said:
Mind her reaction if she's still comfortable with this. If she isn't, it might be necessary to give it a good break for a while. Also ask yourself if you're okay with this too, for real. I do have to say, I respect the sportsmanship but there are guys who say they're okay but later give off an energy of bitterness, or just does a complete cartwheel and goes back to square one with the pursuit. That could get burdensome on the girl and it might not be a very nice experience. Be sure to be in okay place yourself, too.
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Jopetzki said:
Yeah, so - whatever you want: be it practical advice for acute relationship situations, or generally valuable and psychobiologically-based information that could help optimize your life, I'm your man.
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What are your credentials ???
Experience? Textbook? Dissertation? Just looking to practice your practice?
 
On a more interesting note: I made some matcha chocolate, and DAMN IS IT AWESOME. Totally recommended. My new favorite alongside ruby chocolate. I used the highest-quality matcha I could find.
 
Sandie33 said:
What's ruby chocolate? Sounds exotic.
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"Just like white and milk chocolates, ruby chocolate is made by grinding cacao derivatives (chocolate liquor, cocoa butter) with sugar and milk powder, though with a few additional ingredients, in this case: citric acid, soy lecithin, and “natural flavor.” The pink color is said to come from the under-fermented cacao beans that Callebaut [chocolate manufacturer] treats with their own process."
 
Arindum said:
Does anyone watch Frank James videos on YouTube? Is is accurate what he says ?
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Everything is relative, but in general I'd say that his perceptions are mostly accurate at least from my point of view. I relate to him. On a lot of things.
 
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April said:
Everything is relative, but in general I'd say that his perceptions are mostly accurate at least from my point of view. I relate to him. On a lot of things.
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I see, I watched few videos of him to get better understanding of INFJs, one of them explained why INFJs ruin relationships or have a hard time in moving on.
 
@Jopetzki

Have you considered volunteering? Usually you get plenty of training for the role. This might be an option for you - if you genuinely want to help others.
 
Sandie33 said:
What's ruby chocolate? Sounds exotic.
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ITS AWESOME
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I suggest you buy it, some *free* advice
 
Jopetzki said:
I don't think there's any need to know anything to talk about it. Others shall correct you, if they know you wrong. Of course, I do know something though.
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Hmm.

No I meant more like, what motivates you?
Appreciating discussion isn't bad. I'm always curious what drives people, it helps me understand them better.
 
Winterflowers said:
Hmm.

No I meant more like, what motivates you?
Appreciating discussion isn't bad. I'm always curious what drives people, it helps me understand them better.
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Oh, I see. I'm not used to people asking about motivation, so I hope you understand my assumption.

In the moment I started this thread, I was motivated by desire to apply logical thought. I also felt pretty narcissistic, which can be seen in the grandiose articulation. In general, I more enjoy thinking than feeling, and if I had to choose between a romantic relationship and an interesting, difficult problem to solve through logic, I'd go with the problem.
 
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