I can respect that, but I wonder how true it is. I wonder if something very important to you, an integral part of your being was condemned as wrong, would you be so understanding. Would you really try to see it from the other person's perspective. I have my doubts, but it's not something I'll ever know.
Actually this occurs to christians on a regular basis on this forum. It is something I had occur to me often when I was a christian. Being a christian is an integral part of a person that affects their whole life.
That's a very condescending attitude. That the only reason people are getting worked up here is because we don't handle criticism well.
I never wrote that it was the only reason. It is not wrong and a person is not lesser when they have a softer heart.
Most people here have seen this sort of attitude before. And you generally try to accept it as a price for interacting with people, but that isn't always easy. The fact is, even being thick skinned doesn't make you invulnerable, it doesn't mean your resistance to this kind of bullshit isn't worn down every time you see it. And sometimes it gets to a point where you can't help but react emotionally
I can understand that. But if that is the issue then I generally back off and regain my composure before re-initiating discussion. I would not condone my reactiviness.
No I meant empathy. To try and see how Amad's words feel from the eyes of those he condemns. You seem to be having trouble in understanding people's reaction so perhaps trying to see it from a different perspective might help you out with that.
I understand people's reaction and it is different for different people on different levels. I don't feel a reaction is a productive approach. I do not see it as beneficial long term for those who suffer at a Amad's condemnation.
Your reaction to a feeling of righteous anger that makes you feel right, fear at the pain and damage he is causing, resentment at the destruction caused by those before him and like him, hopeless frustration and the endlessness of it all.
To accept my views and not place yourself aggressively in opposition to amad gives a feeling of 'compromising your greater values' and this is not something you can do. In a sense you feel that is what I do when I interact with Amad in a less aggressive manner than you would. And as is stated here you feel I am un-empathetic to victims and therefore I must be suffering from emotional ignorance or sever bias.
-I don't know if I captured the feeling well enough and much is lost when put into words but I hope that I am understanding you well.
That's a personal viewpoint. One I disagree with. I believe that if you refuse to show respect then it should not be shown in return. Maybe it makes you feel better to show respect to everyone no matter how they treat you, but it doesn't work that way for me.
That is fine. People tend to react better and it makes life easier. Aggressive opposition has never shown to benefit me
So if I randomly walked up to you and called your mother a whore you would ask me what's wrong? Wow, you must be the second coming of Jesus.
It is fine if you don't believe me. Choosing to be ignorant of your situation before I come to judgment would put me in more uncomfortable situation than you would be putting me in. I would judge myself as being unwise, inconsiderate, and ignorant. My own personal judgements are going to be a lot harder to deal with than some meaningless and arbitrary insult you come up with because only the truth is valid right and true and can strike me in the heart.