Not sure where I remember this from...but i do recall seeing some sort of "study" done on level of satisfaction with romantic relationships.... they looked at all 16 types, and every possible combination.
seems that every type scored somewhere between 1 and 100 (100 being very very happy in love, 1 being i'm gonna rip their/my brains out)... EXCEPT INFJ and INFP relations (160ish?? I believe) and then some incredible INFJ and INFJ relationships...like off the charts (500-600 or something sick like that)
I'm probably getting these numbers very wrong, if they are even "very right" to start with! but... yea... everyone fell between 1 to 100, except INFJ/INFP's who were notably higher, and then INFJ/INFJ, that nothing else even came remotely close to in terms of satisfaction.
Oh, and the guy INFJ's were happier with INFP's or INFJ's than the female INFJ's were with the guy versions.
so for all you straight male INFJ's out there... rumor has it that you can acheive a level of satisfaction in your romantic relationships that no other type can even seek to comprehend (save maybe another female INFJ/INFP)
long time ago... remember this from...oh gee... 12 years ago?
FWIW...i've seen kinda how this would play out (i've known more than my share of female INFJ's, and male INFP's)... and ya... when it "clicks" it's... beyond what I personally would be able to experience. Just a constant synergy and multi-layered non-verbal understanding that each aspect of resonates so strongly with the other, and then knowing this, it only increases this sense of satisfaction with the other, other person...and so on...etc.
I'm just a bit too egocentric and logical to experience such a constant emotional flow like that... but, there are many times (usually a couple times a month, if not more) that the wife and I experience something that evokes a similar feeling of wonder and fulfillment. but it's only if we "make time" for that type of thing. otherwise, I personally float about 2-3 emotional layers away from that at any given time. But kudos to u INFJ's out there, if my memory and that "study" are in any way correct, you guys have some pretty fucking amazing relationship experience potential there!
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