My background is that I got into a line of work which was extremely regimented and demanding. At the time that kind of thing appealed to me - and I suppose that I was good at it. Personal development was obviously set back, but personal preference/expression/etc. wasn't really a helpful trait in that line of work. So I guess there is a bit of self time now. However, that kind of thing is probably too far gone now anyway - I mean, your mentality is pretty much set by the time you're 24-ish, so I'm not too interested in finding my place/myself/etc. It took me years to basically make myself redundant - and I hope to keep things that way in the many senses of the word.
My interest is in growing stuff. Literally, one of the first things I did with my new-found freedom was to cultivate a crazily productive garden - more because of satisfaction of bringing something from potentiality to super-abundance (a seed to fruit kind of thing). Right now I'm turning a wreck of house on a large isolated property from perfectly repellent to perfectly welcoming (again just for the satisfaction of bringing what seemed to have no good potential to something good).
Hobbies and time-wasters have their place - I'm not interested in a playboy lifestyle (bought a Merc convertible out of boredom, kept it 6 months and sold it as a completely impractical and frustrating waste of time, that made me angry when I saw it sitting there). What you do so aptly in this thread is to shine a light on the broken bits of society and its structures. What is apparent is that we're in a broken down sewer slowly backing up with shit. So, what I'm looking for right now is how do you either get the sewer working, or even make it something better; or where's the light at the end of the tunnel, so people can just leave the shit behind? I'm a problem fixer and operation grower - just need to know how to fix the bigger problems, or make them redundant, working from a limited sphere of influence (not a politician-type).
I think that is really awesome that you have that financial freedom and you don’t seem to squander it stupidly like some.
I too love growing gardens and plants, my house is filled with plants, and my garden outside is still making vegetables even though it’s getting colder here now.
There is a certain amount of catharsis from fixing things isn’t there?
When my marriage fell to hell, I moved into this bungalow build in the 20’s, beautiful bones, but decades of neglect.
I must have patched hundreds of nails holes, repainted it all, retiled the bathroom floor, refinished the hardwood floors, etc.
I credit my time spent fixing that place also fixing the bits in me that took a hit from the divorce.
Yes, the sewer is backed up full of shit.
But the light that I see at the end of the "tunnel of shit” (lol), is the fact that money is so much a part of our political structure here in the US anyhow that it’s opening people’s eyes. They are starting to take an interest where they didn’t before, starting to ask “how did we get here?” “what happened to this or that law protecting us from bank failures?” etc. etc.
This election cycle is turning into a circus side-show, and it’s reflective in both the extreme right of Trump and Carson and the left with Bernie Sanders.
When folks like the Koch brothers and their other shell groups and super-PACs are spending and have budgeted $889 Million to influence the elections (publicly known anyhow) how can America call itself a democracy anymore? We don’t choose the candidates who get whittled down to always a Republican and a Democrat, we don’t have a popular vote in the US rather a broken system of electoral votes (which was clearly shown to be unrepresentative with the defeat of Al Gore despite him actually winning the most votes).
We now have a law saying “money = free speech” and our Congress for the most part is run by the groups of lobbyists for the various corporations that donate to the Congresspeople’s campaigns .
We have groups like ALEC who write write the laws on behalf of large corporate entities and many get passed in our country as laws word for word in some cases.
We have groups actively trying to suppress the votes of the poor and/or being an ethnic minority.
We have gerrymandering of our votes on both sides of the table and redistricting of counties to benefit one side or another.
Our supposed “freedom” in the US - we have the most incarcerated society in the world.
I would say, we are a sad excuse for a “democracy” much less the country that likes to go invade and spread it around like an STD.
It’s all these things though that are starting to get people involved, starting to show them, that hey - our media lies to us a good portion of the time.
I guess what I’m saying is - it is my belief that all the pressure building up in that line of shit is about to blow out the plug.
Like maybe French Revolution style…though I personally hope it’s peaceful.