- MBTI
- INFJ
Hi, I seek the wisdom of someone involved in male INFJ - female ENFJ romantic relationship. If there exists any.
The thing is I'm a sucker for ladies of this particular type
But I always feel overpowered by her. And when this happens I fall back to an immature "trying to please" mode which quickly and efficiently destroys any chance for romance.
When analyzing a bit it becomes clear that ENFJs have better expressed functions than me. Her Fe ability is just ungodly good. And Se is also by a magnitude higher - therefore she is just better at coordination, crafts and looking good in general. No wonder I feel like being in the shadow all the time. Sometimes she even looks like the perfect human. Needless to say attraction from my side is immense.

So guys how do you deal with this? Or at least how not to fall into a trap of becoming hopelessly amoured when she's clearly not interested?
The thing is I'm a sucker for ladies of this particular type

When analyzing a bit it becomes clear that ENFJs have better expressed functions than me. Her Fe ability is just ungodly good. And Se is also by a magnitude higher - therefore she is just better at coordination, crafts and looking good in general. No wonder I feel like being in the shadow all the time. Sometimes she even looks like the perfect human. Needless to say attraction from my side is immense.

So guys how do you deal with this? Or at least how not to fall into a trap of becoming hopelessly amoured when she's clearly not interested?