Jonah Caan
Community Member
- MBTI
- INFJ
The love of my life and someone who (rationally) I call my soulmate was an INFP-T male whilst I'm an INFJ male.
We're no longer together but I cannot put into words how special the relationship was, even now as the rose coloured glasses have long but faded away.
We literally had no fights but towards the end, as we were unable to be together physically in life, I sensed some passive-aggressiveness from him. It wasn't his fault nor mine that we couldn't be together but I realised that he was unable to communicate his frustrations (which was his fault) and chose to deal with his emotions internally. This meant that he only took his own opinion into account so was prone to make drastically wrong decisions.
So apart from running away from conflict (which is a red flag, haha) it felt like a miracle.
We're no longer together but I cannot put into words how special the relationship was, even now as the rose coloured glasses have long but faded away.
We literally had no fights but towards the end, as we were unable to be together physically in life, I sensed some passive-aggressiveness from him. It wasn't his fault nor mine that we couldn't be together but I realised that he was unable to communicate his frustrations (which was his fault) and chose to deal with his emotions internally. This meant that he only took his own opinion into account so was prone to make drastically wrong decisions.
So apart from running away from conflict (which is a red flag, haha) it felt like a miracle.