Milktoast Bandit
Dominate with compassion...
- MBTI
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- Enneagram
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Maybe this is more like infp + infp...
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For those of us who fancy ince... Yeah, a satisfying pair!I've read on other forums that this combination can be very satisfying romantically.
On second thought, no I do not believe I could date a male INFJ. lolFor those of us who fancy ince... Yeah, a satisfying pair!
I can see how INFJ+INFJ has the potential for great understanding and deep connection, but it can also be a recipe for disaster. Two people who have similar weaknesses and insecurities might understand each other well, but they can also end up making those aspects worse, or get stuck in mutual suspicions without finding a way out. Based on this I'm guessing that a young identical pair might end up in a volatile relationship, but once people have an understanding of the issues they have, it could be truly wonderful. I don't mean the issues need to have been solved, but at least the two need to understand what they are to be able to help each other.
What about INTP + INFJ?
What about INTP + INFJ?
My second one (my ex-fiancé) was an ESFP and boy, I dodged a missile on that one.
Yes! A very good match. I can’t think of any other type I could tolerate. I briefly dated an ENFP who irritated the life out of me. INTP and INFJ can work very well as long as they can communicate.What about INTP + INFJ?
Yes! A very good match. I can’t think of any other type I could tolerate. I briefly dated an ENFP who irritated the life out of me. INTP and INFJ can work very well as long as they can communicate.
They can be asses, especially when younger so the INFJ can’t be too sensitive. They usually have a great sense of humor and if the INFJ is a jokester even better! We can be lazy together and give zero fucks. They’re laid back which is great. So much to be learned from each other and lots and lots of fun!Agreed!
They can be asses, especially when younger so the INFJ can’t be too sensitive. They usually have a great sense of humor and if the INFJ is a jokester even better! We can be lazy together and give zero fucks. They’re laid back which is great. So much to be learned from each other and lots and lots of fun!
I've read on other forums that this combination can be very satisfying romantically.
Yes! A very good match. I can’t think of any other type I could tolerate. I briefly dated an ENFP who irritated the life out of me. INTP and INFJ can work very well as long as they can communicate.
It sounds like a horrible old movie. A silent black and white film where all of the emotions are on their faces but no one speaks and an old lady is furiously playing a piano in the corner behind a curtain.
Sorry, I am a bit cynical these days. Haha.
I wouldn't know, I've never met an INFJ male except on here (that I'm aware of) and I certainly haven't been in a relationship with one. Though something tells me if there was an INFJ couple no one would ever see them.
I have. I even dated him for a while. Honestly, I loved every minute that we were together. It felt like coming home to me. But he's a lot more introverted than I am, and just wasn't there... ever. People were anything but a priority to him and dating was a sore spot he wasn't ready to deal with.
When we broke it off we tried to be friends, but I couldn't keep it up without some real distance to heal from the feelings I had for him. I'm still working on that. I gave him a door close rather than a door slam, because I was hurting both of us and needed to not be able to talk to him (yay overpowering emotion!)
INFJ men seem to be even less emotionally forthcoming than we women are, but when they allow themselves to be affectionate, it's wonderful. they know intuitively what you'll respond to and what will make you feel loved, half because it's the same thing as they want and need.
This one is very (pardon my extreme nerdiness) Gryffindor. He's a perfect gentleman and would never intentionally hurt anyone, but has an incredible fire to protect the people he cares about.
On the downside, I found him nearly impossible to read. He knew all the tricks and had all the walls up. He'd been hurt before, so he was very wary. I don't think I was what he needed to help him heal from that. And if I was, he wasn't ready to heal.
Hope that helped a bit!