WOW
It felt like as if I wrote all those sentences myself! as if I was reading the text I typed but I just don't remember when I actually did it.
Well there's a lot to tell.
I'm also a NBSB ( if this is actually a term
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you know all the feelings so I just tell you one story which I wrote about and the thread is here if you wanna know more.
I had a good friend - 3 years younger than me and we became best buddies after 2 years of chatting 24/7.We saw each other in gatherings and everyone knew that we're best friends.I had feelings for him from day 1 and (I think cuz I really don't know what happened) he didn't cuz he talked about girls and went to a 1 year relationship and I had to forget him caught up in friend zone. so I kinda forget him and liked someone else
Then he broke up and we kept seeing each other more , in the same workplace.as we were still best friends I told him I had a crush on sb but didn't tell him who(since he knew that person).and he kept asking and digging so much that I truly realized that he really liked me and suddenly -I don't know how- I starting feeling for him again putting my crush on him again!!
But things got worse and I couldn't handle it anymore and I planned to stop that friendship cuz I was tired of being in friend zone.and the night I decided to do that he just asked me to be his girlfriend-he told me that he'd had feelings for me for a long long time but he could't say anything cuz he thought my crush was someone else.now things were sweet then but lots of worse things happened afterwards.He was an ISTP. Didn't really like to commit but he told me (if the truth of not) he wanted us to be the best for the future and he couldn't at that moment and he couldn't handle it.
The story went on and on and we broke up after he went back to that ex of his!
Don't actually know what happened .in the end, the day we broke up, he told me that he started the relationship cuz he didn't want to lose me as a friend and that he never had feelings for me .which I couldn't never understand if it was the truth cuz of lots of other stuff he did and said.
Well.he was my soulmate.we both knew we were.nobody could understand me better than him and that was the same for him cuz he tend to be more attached than I was.I was like a gem he could never have and from the moment he got the idea that he could he thought it was over I guess.
The good part is this : I wrote a list someday .a wish list and a list of things I was thankful for.He was the top of my list.Number one and 5 days after I wrote that list I was his girlfriend.Now before writing that list I had the vision of being with him forever like a married couple.and I sometimes have these kinda visions and they truly happens.so I thought we would be together in the future to matter what.but after he cheated on me I couldn't even think about it.Never knew that was that vision and what happened to the list but I erased his name everywhere his name was.
Now I truly believed he was my soulmate since I read this :
I still can't believe the verse cuz it's too hard to be with someone like that again!I would kill for him and he would do the same for me!We understood what we wanted to say through looking at each other , but that verse can heal my wounded heart anyway...
P.S: sorry if there are lots of grammatical mistakes in my post.wanted to post this right now and have to go to work.But I know all the feelings you experience so you're not alone
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