Hi NeverAmI,
I haven't had a chance to read 'Denial of Death' yet, but I did see the documentary 'Flight from Death' that is based upon it. I thought it really explained a lot and I'm grateful to you for suggesting it to me. My own confidence took a bit of a knock recently, but I hope I'm getting it back on track again. It's difficult, my father always used to say "Did you do your best?" - and that if the answer was yes, that was all you could do anyway.
Well anyway, thanks a lot I think that's helped me.
Take Care,
James