gloomy-optimist
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Iiii still think I'm going to side on the side of the realists rather than the righteous thinkers.
I mean, a woman is not made to be oogled. But then, there are times where, if you are going to wear something, you must realize that you are accenting certain parts of the anatomy that are associated with certain things (namely sex, in this situation). Yeah, you could sit there and say, "I don't have to change the way I dress because guys are pigs," but the fact of the matter is, you're a responsible adult, and if you are going to wear something that is sexually provocative, then you need to take responsibility for the fact that you are doing so. Plain and simple. If you don't like it, the wear something more modest -- you don't have to be half-naked to be look great.
Now, if you are dressed fairly decently (no great amount of cleavage -- many women don't realize just how low some shirts are), then you have every right to put your fist down. However, your choice of clothes is a statement and, whether you like it or not, it is YOUR choice. It's not up to the world to change it's mindset -- if you don't like it, then well, sorry, but it's up to you to change because the world isn't going to change it's reaction to you, for you.
A woman, whether she likes it or not, realizes this and has to own up to it. Pointing fingers doesn't really work
I mean, a woman is not made to be oogled. But then, there are times where, if you are going to wear something, you must realize that you are accenting certain parts of the anatomy that are associated with certain things (namely sex, in this situation). Yeah, you could sit there and say, "I don't have to change the way I dress because guys are pigs," but the fact of the matter is, you're a responsible adult, and if you are going to wear something that is sexually provocative, then you need to take responsibility for the fact that you are doing so. Plain and simple. If you don't like it, the wear something more modest -- you don't have to be half-naked to be look great.
Now, if you are dressed fairly decently (no great amount of cleavage -- many women don't realize just how low some shirts are), then you have every right to put your fist down. However, your choice of clothes is a statement and, whether you like it or not, it is YOUR choice. It's not up to the world to change it's mindset -- if you don't like it, then well, sorry, but it's up to you to change because the world isn't going to change it's reaction to you, for you.
A woman, whether she likes it or not, realizes this and has to own up to it. Pointing fingers doesn't really work
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