My love doesn't go in and out like a breeze but everyone's ingredients are different. My love is more about bonding, loyalty, reliablity, understanding, concern, empathy and stablity. These things do not go in an out like a breeze but they do not burn like the sun simlar to affection, idealism, desire, lust, enslavement of the heart, admiration, respect, appreciation, esteem, and high regard.
The first set of ingredients is about your own actions and sacrifices you make that build up on these emotions and strengthen them. The second set is about how you precieve their actions toward you and it is less in your control so it is like the wind as it comes and goes but it can also be strong when it comes.
A relationship has all these different ingredients in the emotion we call love and more. But a good reciepe doesn't just contain your most favorite ingredients, it contains the ingredients in the right proportions.
I think people spend more time in enjoyment of eating the cake never considering the ingredients and what that might mean for them long term.... that is until they get a cavity...or a sign of pre-diabetes.
EDIT: I am debating my placement of affection. There are a few types of affection. One is of preference, my affection for sugar, and another is the affection you have for a child....