Scientia
A true lady
- MBTI
- INFJ
Kiersey calls the INFJ The Counselor. In my experience, this tends toward truth in that I can be anywhere in almost any setting and someone will start talking to me about life issues. I listen, reflect and guide almost on autopilot at times. Recently, I was at a gathering and three different people - all acquaintances - literally waited in line to talk to me about their problems. I now know a great deal about these people but they still know very little about me. I was exhausted afterwards but I am still thinking about that day. I found this curious and wondered if you all have similar experiences.
By this term, I mean do people tell you their problems, effectively using you as an impromptu therapist? When was the last time this happened to you? Do you "soak up" all of their issues and emotions until they feel better or do you not encourage them to talk? How do interactions like this affect you?
By this term, I mean do people tell you their problems, effectively using you as an impromptu therapist? When was the last time this happened to you? Do you "soak up" all of their issues and emotions until they feel better or do you not encourage them to talk? How do interactions like this affect you?