[INFJ] INFJ getting friendzoned (specificly by INFP) but also other types.

Deleted member 16771 said:
In terms of being friends first, I don't think that could work with some men. If I was interested that way, I would just ask her and either take her out or move on depending on the answer.

Just be aware that some men might judge you negatively for waiting. They might think you're the type to 'wait for something better' or they might think you're disrespectful to them personally. Maybe these men are the immature ones or maybe they're not, I don't know. It's just different.
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Yes I understand that. I see a lot of women and girls holding their guy on a leach while dating and still looking for other guys at the same time. I don't want to do this to a guy so when I date a guy, it is always only him I focus on completely. The guy I refered to in my earlier post, he was the one waiting for something better all the time... while at the same time using me for sex. Especially a guy should imo understand how this feels, since girls are usually the one who keep different options open with other guys...
 
BeautifulSuffering said:
Yes I understand that. I see a lot of women and girls holding their guy on a leach while dating and still looking for other guys at the same time. I don't want to do this to a guy so when I date a guy, it is always only him I focus on completely. The guy I refered to in my earlier post, he was the one waiting for something better all the time... while at the same time using me for sex. Especially a guy should imo understand how this feels, since girls are usually the one who keep different options open with other guys...
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Oh God, stop, you're going to make me puke.

People should just have more respect. Its no foundation for any relationship, this weird 'upgrade' culture.
 
BeautifulSuffering said:
The guy I refered to in my earlier post, he was the one waiting for something better all the time.
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Deleted member 16771 said:
Its no foundation for any relationship, this weird 'upgrade' culture.
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I'm with Deleted member 16771 100% on this - you have been treated very shabbily BS and quite frankly it stinks. I wish every success for you this new year finding someone you can love and cherish and who will love and cherish you.
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I'll just drop this in. Many forms.. so many forms.. (If these are all of them? I leave that for you to make your opinion.)

Anyways.. it is good to know people are seeking different things and you shouldn't blame them for it.. but it is even better if you can read a bit more precisely what people desire. Cheers!
 
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I'll just drop this in. Many forms.. so many forms.. (If these are all of them? I leave that for you to make your opinion.)

Anyways.. it is good to know people are seeking different things and you shouldn't blame them for it.. but it is even better if you can read a bit more precisely what people desire. Cheers!
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Very cool, IC.

Ideally we should try to cultivate all of them.
 
Deleted member 16771 said:
Very cool, IC.

Ideally we should try to cultivate all of them.
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hum :frowning:
should? ought to? want? we? generally? the world? in one relationshop? hmh. haha

I personally stick to the idea.. that if people are on the same page each type (or mix) can be good and productive. I believe I've enjoyed different types myself..
falling in love with an old friend and watching this person grow next to me is still pretty awsome :sunglasses:
 
Deleted member 16771 said:
Lololol.

Yeah I agree with you, but equally I don't think it's too hard to be occasionally playful or romantic with your SO, say, even if the foundation is pragma.
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I cannot dismiss nor approve of any or left out implications of this statement. :smirk:
 
OK I'm going to have to be that guy and ask this...

Were your political beliefs anything to do with the guy saying that you were 'too weird', &c.?
 
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