*Sitting back quietly, observing*
Well here is something to dicuss/think about in the meantime:
I have basically weeded through all the criteria of what I want in a relationship (friendship), and the most important are honesty, respect, dependability, communication, and commitment to personal growth.
The one thing I do NOT want because it inhibits these qualities is substance abuse, including drinking. It's pretty simple.
Some people would actually argue that the only way for anyone (well, humans at least) to be enlightened (and thus reach their full potential) is actually through the use of certain psychoactive drugs. Although I suppose if true, that might not be considered abuse (by you?), especially if taken responsibly (would it?).
For the record though, I am not one of those people. I don't possess enough data to judge either way. I do have a slight fear of intoxication to a degree, though. I'd hate to commit a horrid crime while drunk, for example, but I guess that comes down to the level of responsible drinking (and maximum quantity which happens to be available (be that a zero or non-zero value)).
Last time I drank a full alcoholic beverage was about 4/5 months ago, but I did take a sip of a Baileys-like drink about 2/3 weeks ago, although I'm not sure how much that has inhibited my honesty, respect, dependability, communication, or commitment to personal growth.
I suppose I generally happen to live "Straight-Edge" (if the consumption of caffeine is compatible with Straight-Edge-ness), but this is because I'd rather spend any drink money on food and cola, ha, and because I don't go out much. But if someone offered me 2 Euro to drink a pint of Cider (which they paid for), I'd do it like. Heck if someone gave me a drink (alcoholic or not), and I didn't mind the taste, I'd drink it, if I were thirsty (although I'd prefer a cola).
I guess whether I am "Straight-Edge" or not depends on whether it's strictly experience of the lifestyle or if it's both the intention and execution. Which is it?
Anyway, where does caffeine lie for your personal parameters?