This is nonsense. Free-will is not the issue.
The fact is, GOD is in control. GOD sets the parameters of existence.
You wouldn't even EXIST without God's creating and sustaining you.
So to speak of your own "free-will" is utterly non-sensical. GOD is the only one with a free will.
The will of Man is to SIN and REBEL. That's ALL it is capable of doing.
You will never be saved until you realize this fact.
Without regeneration, an act of God performed on the sinner, that person is dead in sin, and all he does is sin.
One must be "raised from the dead", and "born again" from above, or he cannot know or please God.
It is only by grace, through faith in Jesus Christ, that a sinner can be reconciled to God.
It is not in the NATURE of Man to believe or obey God. It's altogether a spiritual gift.
If salvation were dependent on the will of Man, then not one soul would be saved.
The GOOD NEWS is that Christ has ACCOMPLISHED salvation, and he GIVES it to whomever he will.
And all that the Father gives to him WILL come to him and be saved.
The Lord Jesus said, in John 10:27-30 :
My sheep hear My voice, and I know them, and they follow Me.
And I give them eternal life, and they shall never perish;
neither shall anyone snatch them out of My hand.
My Father, who has given them to Me, is greater than all;
and no one is able to snatch them out of My Father’s hand.
I and My Father are one.”
Listen,
The answers are all in the Scriptures.
All of you should stop guessing, and just read the Scriptures.
And pray that God would point you to a true Gospel preacher.
Perhaps God, in his grace, will give you understanding. But it won't happen apart from the preaching of the Gospel.
If anyone is interested, I can help.
I can point you to good sermons, and possibly to good churches in your area.
Just PM me or write on my wall.
I'm not here to condemn, but to point you to CHRIST.
You cling to your invented "dogma" so doggedly that I cannot even begin to imagine how you might have to distort Matthew 25, to make it fit into your fabricated world-view:
Matthew Chapter 25 1
“Then the kingdom of heaven shall be compared to ten maidens who took their lamps and went to meet the bridegroom. 2 Five of them were foolish, and five were wise. 3 For when the foolish took their lamps, they took no oil with them; 4 but the wise took flasks of oil with their lamps. 5 As the bridegroom was delayed, they all slumbered and slept. 6 But at midnight there was a cry, ‘Behold, the bridegroom! Come out to meet him.’ 7 Then all those maidens rose and trimmed their lamps. 8 And the foolish said to the wise, ‘Give us some of your oil, for our lamps are going out.’ 9 But the wise replied, ‘Perhaps there will not be enough for us and for you; go rather to the dealers and buy for yourselves.’ 10 And while they went to buy, the bridegroom came, and those who were ready went in with him to the marriage feast; and the door was shut. 11 Afterward the other maidens came also, saying, ‘Lord, lord, open to us.’ 12 But he replied, ‘Truly, I say to you, I do not know you.’ 13 Watch therefore, for you know neither the day nor the hour.
14 “For it will be as when a man going on a journey called his servants and entrusted to them his property; 15 to one he gave five talents, to another two, to another one, to
each according to his ability. Then he went away. 16 He who had received the five talents went at once and traded with them; and he made five talents more. 17 So also, he who had the two talents made two talents more. 18 But he who had received the one talent went and dug in the ground and hid his master’s money. 19 Now after a long time the master of those servants came and settled accounts with them. 20 And he who had received the five talents came forward, bringing five talents more, saying, ‘Master, you delivered to me five talents; here I have made five talents more.’ 21
His master said to him, ‘Well done, good and faithful servant; you have been faithful over a little, I will set you over much; enter into the joy of your master.’ 22 And he also who had the two talents came forward, saying, ‘Master, you delivered to me two talents; here I have made two talents more.’ 23 His master said to him,
‘Well done, good and faithful servant; you have been faithful over a little, I will set you over much; enter into the joy of your master.’ 24 He also who had received the one talent came forward, saying, ‘Master, I knew you to be a hard man, reaping where you did not sow, and gathering where you did not winnow; 25 so I was afraid, and I went and hid your talent in the ground. Here you have what is yours.’ 26 But his master answered him, ‘You wicked and slothful servant! You knew that I reap where I have not sowed, and gather where I have not winnowed? 27 Then you ought to have invested my money with the bankers, and at my coming I should have received what was my own with interest. 28 So take the talent from him, and give it to him who has the ten talents. 29 For to every one who has will more be given, and he will have abundance; but from him who has not, even what he has will be taken away. 30 And cast the worthless servant into the outer darkness; there men will weep and gnash their teeth.’
31 “When the Son of man comes in his glory, and all the angels with him, then he will sit on his glorious throne. 32 Before him will be gathered all the nations, and he will separate them one from another as a shepherd separates the sheep from the goats, 33 and he will place the sheep at his right hand, but the goats at the left. 34 Then the King will say to those at his right hand,
‘Come, O blessed of my Father, inherit the kingdom prepared for you from the foundation of the world; 35 for I was hungry and you gave me food, I was thirsty and you gave me drink, I was a stranger and you welcomed me, 36 I was naked and you clothed me, I was sick and you visited me, I was in prison and you came to me.’ 37 Then the righteous will answer him, ‘Lord, when did we see thee hungry and feed thee, or thirsty and give thee drink? 38 And when did we see thee a stranger and welcome thee, or naked and clothe thee? 39 And when did we see thee sick or in prison and visit thee?’ 40 And the King will answer them,
‘Truly, I say to you, as you did it to one of the least of these my brethren, you did it to me.’ 41 Then he will say to those at his left hand, ‘Depart from me, you cursed, into the eternal fire prepared for the devil and his angels; 42 for I was hungry and you gave me no food, I was thirsty and you gave me no drink, 43 I was a stranger and you did not welcome me, naked and you did not clothe me, sick and in prison and you did not visit me.’ 44 Then they also will answer, ‘Lord, when did we see thee hungry or thirsty or a stranger or naked or sick or in prison, and did not minister to thee?’ 45 Then he will answer them, ‘Truly, I say to you, as you did it not to one of the least of these, you did it not to me.’ 46 And they will go away into eternal punishment, but the righteous into eternal life.”
I cringe to think that you might read the parable to mean literal money, rather than the gifts of God (graces), which can be increased through one's activity, or neglected through inactivity.
What does it mean to you, when Our Lord says to those who increase the grace in themselves, "Well done, good and faithful servant" - those who increase grace and serve Him by feeding the hungry, clothing the poor, visiting captives, etc.?