- MBTI
- INFP-A
Somehow I think many of the perceptions had of older women are myths rather than truths. I think younger men are attracted to older women because they don't think the older woman would pressure them into a relationship. They like the novelty of dating someone outside their age range and experience, seeing it as slightly exotic. Older women, however, have perspective and more understanding of men because of previous experiences so they are not as likely to be annoyed by things younger women would be bothered about. Younger women will more likely want men their age to be an ideal, whereas older women will more likely expect a man to act like a man, and not hold it against him as much. Younger woman are taught to have a checklist to judge potential partners. Older women know better, and are more likely to see the possibilities than expect their partners to live up to some high standard. I think culture plays a role in this as well.
Reminds me of that scene in the movie Up in the Air. Older women are more realistic. A 20 year old girl is looking for the perfect guy. A 40 year old woman is looking for a compatible mate. Big difference.