- MBTI
- INFJ
These posts, particularly the first few, are spot on for me.
What causes me pain the most as an INFJ? The depth I can achieve in relationships. Isn't that a good thing? No, not always. Once I'm in a deep relationship with someone it's extremely hard for me to get out again, and I've suffered pretty terribly when I was in a deep relationship with people who turned out abusive or damaged to the point where they wound up hurting me, and was unable to get out in an expedient fashion.
Nowadays I keep a really tight reign on those intense feelings I can get at the start of a fulfilling relationship so if the other person turns out to be someone who'll hurt me I won't be in too deep to extract myself. And god is that hard.
What causes me pain the most as an INFJ? The depth I can achieve in relationships. Isn't that a good thing? No, not always. Once I'm in a deep relationship with someone it's extremely hard for me to get out again, and I've suffered pretty terribly when I was in a deep relationship with people who turned out abusive or damaged to the point where they wound up hurting me, and was unable to get out in an expedient fashion.
Nowadays I keep a really tight reign on those intense feelings I can get at the start of a fulfilling relationship so if the other person turns out to be someone who'll hurt me I won't be in too deep to extract myself. And god is that hard.