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"Magnificent Bastard" / Ren's Counterpart
- MBTI
- ENTJ
- Enneagram
- 3w4, 3-8-7
Rejection is a real risk, it is psychologically demoralizing. It is also uncomfortable for a lot of women to reject a man who expresses interest.Waaaaaaaattttttt!?!?
How many times, man? Rejection is not a real risk. This is real real simple.
1) If you are interested in a woman, ask her out.
If she says no, that does not reflect in any way upon your masculinity or worth as a human being.
Otherwise, you're just sort of waiting for women to make moves out of a misplaced sense of status.
That is game playing and and it's bullshit.
There are occasional times when good may come from deliberately asking women out, however, just asking any woman out as a rule-of-thumb isn't polite and can lead to uncomfortable outcomes.
Women make moves on men all of the time. It's ok for a man to step back and relax.